Recent content by Finleyac

Tired Texan, I feel your pain. You recently commented on my thread, so hopefully you can slightly remember where I'm coming from right now. You told me that it was reassuring to hear from other people in a similar situation. I can tell you I'm feeling like I'm in a completely different place...

How do you guys make sure you're seeing a good therapist, and that it is actually doing you some good? I've been seeing someone for a few months now. I originally looked for someone that specialized in chronic pain management, as that is where my focus was at the time. I'm just still not sure...

Sorry, I'm not very on top of this whole forum thing, and answering questions and all of that. Yes, I do have a therapist. I also contacted the local VA & Vet Center looking for some sort of support group for spouses, but was told there weren't any. I know there is a therapist at the Vet Center...

I thought maybe I should just add on to here instead of starting a new post, as it has built in backstory. I reread my original post and am quite surprised, it sounds so eloquent! (LOL) Things continue to get worse... We went to a BBQ at my best friend's house two weeks ago he got in a very...

We've been together 9.5 years, through 1.5 deployments and 4 years since he's been out, but I just don't know how much more I've got in me. I've been reading through many posts on here, trying to search for answers, even though I know answers can only be found within myself. My husband...