Recent content by G86

That's awful. I wish I was already qualified as I would happily put the time in. Not every therapist is the same though, hopefully the next one is more committed. How long is the wait usually?

When you say they dropped you how do you mean?

Hi guys, thank you all so so much for the responses. It really helps knowing I'm not alone and I'm not being silly. Yes he knows it has happened on one occasion, he took it so badly I haven't told him about the rest, maybe I should. He is really a wonderful man, he adores me and he adores my...

Thank you, I try to be! Assaulting me is not a conscious thing so I usually try to fall asleep after cuddling him to sleep so I can get to the other side of the bed and I sleep really light now so I can wake him when he starts having nightmares. (I have perfected my gentle wake and quickly move...

Because I love him, because this is not him, because he's clearly struggling and I want to help him not give up on him. I just need to figure out how to do that

Hi there, I am engaged to a man who has ptsd but won't admit there is a problem. He's always 'fine'. The thing is he's not fine, he has nightmares all the time, during which he has been known to choke or assault me. He's angry a lot, I can't communicate my feelings as he just flips out and...