Recent content by gnarwhal

I'm totally changing my locks tomorrow. Told all my friends, therapist. Blocked his number. I feel a lot better already. I'm going to spend all the time I would have spent on dating... in therapy, since I will need plenty of it after this.

Hahaha. I already live in the mountains... in Alaska... I am running out of places to run :ninja:

Thanks everyone. I kicked him out. Unfortunately I think he took a key to my house, so now I have to change all of my locks, but I am sure it will be well worth it. I am pretty sad about it, but I am sure I will thank myself later.

I basically moved the rest of his belongings out of my house today. He will berate me and berate me and then when I tell him I can't do this anymore and he realizes he's gone too far he suddenly becomes nice and accommodating and tries to play it off like it's my fault and I'm not "allowing" him...

Thank you for this. I am actually in my own therapy and I am really happy with it. It has helped me a lot, not only get insight into this relationship but work on my own issues (I am a perfectionist, I have completely unreasonable standards for myself and pretty critical inner dialog). I...

I do spend time with my friends, though I have to deal with a less than ideal attitude when I get home. He is always suspicious that I say I am going out with my friends and am actually cheating. He's gone through my phone, my iMessages. I've never felt like I was in physical danger, but I will...

My boyfriend just began therapy for PTSD. He's had a hard life, with a lot of trauma. I'm proud of him for seeking (expensive) help, but every single day is a struggle and I have no one to talk to. I met him almost 7 months ago. It's been incredibly hard; I've only managed to stick with him...