Recent content by InWaiting

Thanks everyone. Just to update.... it's only been a few days but her behaviors did get worse. The drinking, drinking and driving, hanging around bad influences, who knows what else. So I am happy with my decision to walk away. You're all quite right. I cannot control her behaviors, nor should I...

Thank you both for your support. And you're very right TLight, life is too short. Every time I feel like caving in on my boundaries, I come to this website and somehow renew my strength. A part of me wishes she would come to this forum too and let it help her the way it has helped me but I know...

Thank you for your response TLight. Your words and this forum in general have been very helpful. She is in therapy which she sought out on her own. For that I am very proud of her because I cannot imagine how hard it must have been to reach out when she was crashing so hard. I know she is...

I agree that if you are ready for one, go for it. My PTSD sufferer has denounced relationships for now and therefore I was pushed away. I think it could have worked and we could have been happy again, but she did not want this (at least not right now). In my opinion though, if the sufferer wants...

I was going to weather the storm with her. My PTSD girlfriend of 3 years. But she kept pushing me away in spite of me being one of the only stable, non-drunk people in her life. We were the best couple. We were so in love. And then a few weeks ago she snapped because of a lot of pressure...