Recent content by KCPearl

Thank you everyone for your kind words. Since I got the phone call yesterday I keep looking in the online version of my old hometown's obits and do not see anything about her death. I keep telling my husband I am so worried about her pulling a "Mommie Dearest" move. Today one of her x...

I am so sorry you feel so strongly that you have to put it down into an email and click send. What if when you wrote the letter you actually addressed it to yourself or a loved one. Read it from that person's perspective. Would you like being talked to in such a way? Would it hurt your soul to...

Do you have a favorite song or scene in a movie? Each time they say something that is triggering try to get your mind to focus on fun, happy thoughts. I totally get where you are coming from and hope that you can find a healthy balance so you can enjoy some of the family dynamic. Remember for...

I am so sorry for your multiple losses. Sending lots of good vibes and thoughts your way.

Thank you Nam, Kaia, and Junebug. You all taking the time to write some kindness is much appreciated. I have gotten 3 phone calls today from long lost relatives trying to reach me. I stopped answering the phone. I don't understand what they think of me. Do they think I would want to attend her...

Hi I am a 42 year old Mom living in the Midwest. My parents divorced when I was 6 and one day my Dad was just gone. My mother was not happy with the burden of children. She was not the loving or caring type. I was very much the opposite of her. I wore my heart on my sleeve. Even though I am...