Recent content by kdoll

Wow! It's so nice to hear from someone who has a similar relationship to sex. It's comforting for both me and her to know that someone else has been there... She feels so alienated from others because she never finds anyone with a story she can relate to. the things you mentioned could be...

I want to clarify too that i'm not trying to rush her to "fix" herself, i honestly don't care if we never had sex again, i love her no matter what level of intimacy she wants. i just know she wants to address this issue and have that closeness with me again but doesn't know where to start and I...

I check in regularly and if something is wrong I always stop that second! :( Her feeling safe is my biggest priority in all aspects of our relationship... We are very close and have been together for years so I'm pretty good at sensing something is wrong with her. she has a few tells that give...

To give a little background, my girlfriend has severe C-PTSD from about 18 straight years of sexual trauma, is on disability and cannot work or take care of herself. She has not yet found a therapist she feels comfortable diving into trauma with. She and I have quit having sex for probably a...