Recent content by Kerbear

I've tried to be patient, understanding and supportive. I just can't understand how he thinks this is okay because it's not. He is being so cold, arrogant and down right mean, like I am not important to him at all. He told me that I blew any chances we had. He is putting all this blame on me and...

All good points, thank you. It's sounds strange maybe, but if I knew for an absolute fact it was only ptsd it would still be hurtful but not quite as bad. I am an adaptable person by nature, and try to accept people flaws and all, but it is true I am spending too much energy on this. I should...

I forgot to mention that he is an alcoholic who is in recovery, he has been sober for 4 years, but that may also still play a role. I do not want to excuse his behavior it's just hard to accept "he's just a jerk" because this behavior is not the norm.

Hi CrazyHorse, thank you. He is the only person sufferring from PTSD that I have had experience with, so it is diffficult for me to decipher the difference between the PTSD and him just being a jerk. As I said, he does not normally act like this at all. He usually, kind, generous and sweet. You...

Then I don't know how to explain it :( he is not usually a rude or mean person, only if he is having an episode. It is like he is a completely different person right now. It seems like he has mild ones which may last a day and then he is ok, or he has a severe one (I've seen 2 similar to this is...

Thank you:) confused14 was me, I just registered so the name changed (something a little more positive) I do not deserve it I know, especially since I am one of the only people who are actually there for him. It just sucks to feel like he couldn't care less.