Recent content by Lily44

stating that i thought someone was coming across in a hostile way is not attacking them - it's describing their behavior as hostile. they have the right to disagree and that's legit. It's ok to have a difference of opinion. To state that i was attacking them when i was not is accusing me of...

Asking for emotional support shouldn't elicit such a hostile response. P.S. I totally disagree with Charbellas take on the situation. It doesn't sound like did wrong by continuing to try to let your wife know the type of support you needed (it definitely wasn't you throwing it in her face, it...

Movingforward 10 nailed it precisely!! The behavior is not what a father who loves his children does. He clearly has some kind of problem. I agree that you likely minimize it because he did and kids in general want to be loved by their parents so even when the parents do things towards the...

i have had overwhelming anxiety since my ex husband who was physically, emotionally, financially, sexually abusive for many many years. The after effects won't leave me alone. I have experienced great help from two things when nothing else worked.... 1. Essential oils they are not to be...

here's a rock you can stand on..... when messed up situations in our world don't get the proper care they deserve... God said "revenge is mine, I will repay". I believe that and it has helped me because it's an awful feeling to think that abusive people get away with hurting others horribly as...

you could get a restraining order.

What a load you are carrying - all those emotions!! I wish you the very very best and I'm so sorry you are experiencing so much pain. I know this type of pain can feel overwhelming and then when there is an event like a funeral or get together, the feelings intensify because of the add ons...