Recent content by lonelyheart83

so i feel like my relationship with my iraq combat vet boyfriend is over. he suffers from ptsd and has been pushing me away A LOT! and now it's to the point where i feel like he is gone permanently. lately we don't even talk or text or anything. when he does talk to me, we argue. he accuses me...

your boyfriend is married and living with his wife....to me, i think that he was thinking of leaving his wife at some point and that may have been when you guys started things. but it sounds like he isn't planning on leaving his wife. maybe he decided to work things out with her. if he hasn't...

yea, when he has his counseling sessions...it messes him up for a day or two. the last time, he had a full blown anxiety attack that lasted days. he never tells me the things he talks about in therapy. but i will eventually go with him, but he isn't ready for me to go with him yet. the road...

thanks for replying. yea, most people think 4 months is too early to be talking marriage. but we wouldn't be actually getting married until like december/january. my parents got married after 6 months of dating and were married until my dad passed away (they were married for 26 years)...my dad...

my boyfriend has combat ptsd and was acting panicked/hyper for days. he all of a sudden was very angry out of nowhere. it lasted for literally days. it was the first time i have seen him like that. we've only been together for 4 months and i knew he had ptsd, but never saw this side of him...

thank you so much for responding. it's very difficult right now. he's going through a lot that i know nothing about. it's hard when all you want is to take someone's pain away but they won't let you. all i can do is just stand by his side and wait for this storm to pass, but i have no clue how...

thanks for responding. he entered treatment on his own. i didn't force him. i broke up with him when i found out he was using. he called the facility and made the arrangements himself. so i got back with him. he also has decided on his own to enter into ptsd treatment as well. so i know he's...

thanks for responding. i know he has been depressed lately and thinking about his mom who passed away almost 3 years ago. he says i remind him of her. so i dont know if that could be some of the reason he avoids me too. i wish he would just tell me that he will need a few days to feel better so...

so i've been dating my bf for a few months now and he has PTSD. he told me right when we met, but i didn't know much about it and had never had any experiences with ptsd before. he was very affectionate and sweet towards me in the beginning but he would randomly go "ghost" from time to time. in...