Recent content by maddiegirl

Aww how sweet thank you so much. It is. I do love him very much but it's so difficult to watch him suffer. :hug:

Because he choosing to

Thank you so much for sharing that with me Sweet Pea...

Honey, I don't even get "lets go ahead and get it over with". that does hurt the self esteem. Sweet Pea, did the stretch go for over a yr or what? Just trying to figure the route I need to take here.

Oh trust I have already thought about it and my own therapist and I have discussed it in length. He says he can get better without meds and therapist are full of shit. And yes I truly believe that he is top toeing about the idea of sex. For the longest time I thought it was me and am not still...

You're exactly right. He says if I want it, I have to take it.. He said all that will happen will be fake. That was nice to hear (not). But, he is sleep deprived, horrendous nightmares, pretty much everything you said. I am a very patient person so I suppose I'll continue to wait He said it may...

Hi. My husband and I have been married for almost 5 yrs. He came back from a deployment and hasn't been the same. He's been home for 2 yrs now and we haven't been intimate in over a year. He takes no meds, ( and will not take any. He thinks they are a waste of time and wont help) and is only...