Recent content by Marije

Hi C-mom, I can also relate to your story. Im bust with divorcing my husband who has PTSD, see my forums stories Only thing is... after he told me he want to divorce and did not love me anymore, he is in silent modus. He don't replay on messages, Phone calls ect.... So im forced to arrange...

Dear C mom, I'm so sorry for you :( But what you wrote I really recognize! Still I did not see any paperwork.....this is the last week he has too take care of it, if not I have to do it. I believe he don't want to divorce, but as time went by, I went on with my life and now I want to divorce...

Hi He fibally called. Total numb. To be honest all the frustration from me came out. Yes i yelled. And i told hin i cant be Friends as he hurted me to much and i cannot trust him. It felt good to finally get that out. I gave him 2 weeks to arrange the paperwork. If not i will arrange it...

Im I crazy or what? As in my prevouice threads i wrote my husband want to divorce. But now... I asked him last week to contact me because of the divorce. We agreed HE would arrange the papers ect. No word or answer on my message. So I called his mother. She told me he said he called me and...

Thank you for writing this down. Thing is i had to do it ass he said he want to divorce me and dont love me.. i try to remind its not me. But with no effort from his side and i who cant forget his words made me to make this dicission. Although i know he wants me in his life. Its just all really...

Hi! It is deff traumatic. Im also left with questions. I hate the ptsd monster, i dont hate him. I hope he find his way although he wont get help.

I did it... I sent him a text that I m done. And I dont want to have contact or see him anymore. Time will tell, but for now I made my choice.

Thank you all for your comments! Its just so hard to see him go down and there is nothing I can do about it. I spent this time to think what I want. One day I think f**k you! Other day I cry out of love and concurn for him. And to be honest.. Im afraid for the day he knocks on the door.. not...

Hi, Thank you for you honestey ( and your brag:P, which I totally agree! You can be proud at her!) Due to the reading on this website I learned a lot! He is the one that will arrange the divorce ( will see how that goes) , so I will wait for him to contact me. Im a bit to emotional at the...

I mean: HE told me last Monday ;)

Question... My husband ( ptss) want to divorce. I told me last Monday...But he already did the push-pull thing in the same conversation..... I would like to hear you guys experiance ( supporter/sufferers) about the push pull effect. How did you guys experianced this? Thanks!

Hi Cactus-Jack, I am really sorry for you! As a (soon to be ex) supporter I can tell that it is really hard. Trust me we try! We try to help our suffores where we can. Listen, helping when needed. My husband (PTSD) wants to divorce, but in that same conversation is busy with the push-pull...

My cat sleeps with me too at night, since my husband( soon to be ex) left us...that makes me smile a little bit :)

I just heard that my dad has eat a pet sausage that was made for dogs... He said it taste good...