Recent content by nomore

ClaireBear 226, I have also had to form my own family from people I trust in my life, none are biological. I thought I was the only one who had no contact with family. I've always felt like people wouldn't understand and it's not something you just bring up in conversation.

......How does our society allow a molester to be protected, and his victims to be ignored, or even demonized? I don't get it. I know my own family can't be the only one that does not understand the power silence gives a molester. How do other families deal with this stuff? I can only see this...

I am so sorry you were assualted. It is hard to believe the things a person can survive but we do survive. I too find it is hard for some people to be with stronger people. They will even try to bring you down to their expection of you. It truly is their issue, not yours. Be who you are meant...

It might be a blessing because communication with them may bring heartache. I have found for me, it is all very sad. So I try very hard to find my own happiness. I am sorry you are going through this. I can relate, my abuse was severe and constant as well, over 10 years. I tried to get help...

I have told the neices and nephews who have contacted me that I will be here to support them if they want to reach out to me.

I did a search online on family taking the side of the abuser and found this forum. I felt like I was alone and was looking online to see if anyone else out there has experienced the family taking the side of the abuser. I had to write each family member a letter and gave them an ultimatim...