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Recent content by NukaGirl

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    Sexual Assault I Don't Know What To Do...

    Sorry, I appreciate your opinion, but you don't know what I need. I know what I need. And what I need is closure.
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    Sexual Assault I Don't Know What To Do...

    I've been meditating on each possibility. Still no clear answer on what I should do.
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    Sexual Assault I Don't Know What To Do...

    I never said I wanted to message him. I don't have the guts to. But, it's if I ever see him, face to face again, if I confront him or run in the other direction.
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    Sexual Assault I Don't Know What To Do...

    My therapist is kink aware, yeah. She finds it interesting that I can still be a part of the scene despite all that's happens to me. How I can still let someone else take control, willingly, and be okay with it. Kink helps. It's somewhat cathartic. I'm a Sadomasochist. I give as good as I take...
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    Sexual Assault I Don't Know What To Do...

    No, it's not the same. The situation I posted about in November was about my ex boyfriend. And I do. She's just been busy, and so have I been.
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    Sexual Assault I Don't Know What To Do...

    Yes, I am prepared for him to tell me that he was fully aware of what he was doing, that he knew I was being serious. To me, either outcome is closure. Either forgiving him, or accepting that he is a monster and being able to look him in the eye and tell him that he doesn't scare me anymore.
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    Sexual Assault I Don't Know What To Do...

    That was directed at Solara for trying to educate me on something I researched intensely before entering the scene.
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    Sexual Assault I Don't Know What To Do...

    I already said once before that he suggested it and I. Said. No. I had not gone down there to play. I had gone down there to reconnect with a very dear friend that I hadn't seen in three months. I was having a rough time at work and I needed a break. So he said to come down for movies and pizza...
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    Sexual Assault I Don't Know What To Do...

    Don't you dare lecture me about BDSM. I have been a part of the scene for five years and I am FULLY aware of the importance of safewords and safe gestures. I did not go down there for play. It was suggested by him, and I said no. Because I was in a relationship. I had mentioned to him a...
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    Sexual Assault I Don't Know What To Do...

    Do you know what consensual non-consensual is? Play. Not real. And I'm not keeping tabs on him. He showed up in my suggested friends on facebook. I couldn't believe that it was the same guy so I looked at his profile once. And it was him. And where did I say I was finding it hard to accept I...
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    Sexual Assault Do I Report?

    A bit of an update. My boyfriend told me that he knew this guy, that his ex had dated him, and he told me that he did the same thing to this girl, as he did to me and my exes ex. Not only that, there was someone before her. Same story. With the anal, and the sex while they're asleep, and the...
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    Sexual Assault I Don't Know What To Do...

    I am currently dealing with an issue that is legitimately making me lose sleep. The Universe has seen fit to bring back into my life the man who raped me three years ago. Apparently, he unblocked me on Facebook. I can see all of his status updates, all of his photos. I just can't comment or...
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    Sexual Assault Do I Report?

    That was hard to read. The parts about the social isolation... he did that to me. Gods above...
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    Sexual Assault Do I Report?

    The more I think about it, the more I see a pattern with the people he's dated. Both me and his ex are strong willed, but we both have immense self esteem issues, we both suffer from depression and lack of confidence. This new girl he's going out with... she's the same. Damaged, like me and his...
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    Sexual Assault Do I Report?

    It was ages ago, and he was very drunk. Outside a bar owned by a close friend of mine, who's on my side. Said friend told me that if my ex ever started with me, he would look the other way if I defended myself. Plus there's cctv. I know I'd be under scrutiny too. But I haven't seen nor heard...
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