Recent content by purplerose

ScaredOfLonely, thanks for your reply, I hear what you are saying and I obviously agree that I am looking for an answer to explain behavior that is hard for me to understand. If that is a comforting answer, I don't know -- I may rather wish that he is "only" troubled by the divorce and the...

Thank you so much for your reply, Ashton. You did make me think about my choices, and whether after all it is I who has not fully made her decision yet, whether or not to go through all this with him, the deployments, the lack of communication, the risks involved, and inevitably the burdens he...

Well I am not sure, that is one reason I am posting here. There were some issues while we were still physically together, for instance his constant jumpiness (that got worse closer to the deployment), sleep disturbances with nightmares and waking up in jolts, then him constantly feeling...

I am really glad I found this forum and I hope it is alright to share my story. It may turn out a bit long but if anyone can help and advice, I would be really grateful because at this point I really don't know what to do and how to deal. I met my current bf about six months ago, he is a...