Recent content by RaeMason

A lot of him saying "it doesn't matter what I want", being "disillusioned" and being afraid of commitment doesn't necessarily have to do with you and your relationship with him. My vet told me once that he didn't feel like he deserved love or a future because of the things he's seen and done in...

A huge lesson I have learned with my Vet is that it is really really hard for them to open up. Early in our relationship I could tell something was wrong but when I would ask he would say he was fine. I would get frustrated and take it personally or think that whatever was bothering him had to...

Good for you! I've been with my combat vet for a while, and I can tell you, its really amazing how much your mood and how you feel about yourself really affects your vet. When I'm stressed out or having a bad day, he picks up on it and HE gets stressed out too and anxious. Taking time for...