Recent content by richard_Grey_Area

Hello. This will no doubt bring creepy joy to some here, but I have decided to take a voluntary sabbatical from the myptsd forum. After an unspecified duration, I will return with (as mentioned before) less controversial things to share. If by then people have not forgotten the offensive nature...

You are very angry. I have never accused anyone of being a rapist not on these forums or off them. I have accused people of having attitudes and saying things which I feel contribute to problems in society. I used your post as an example because you illustrated things I was saying nicely. I...

Yes, too many thoughts. Your post really stood out as showing that someone was reading what I said and not just reacting and there are many things I wanted to get to. I don't really want to provoke people further, I did this for a reason and I would like to move beyond it. But I do have thoughts...

Hello Oakleaves. What you posted resonates so well with me. I experience almost exactly the same as you, during sex I don't feel any kind of physical pleasure making the experience unpleasant and awkward for both me and my partners. I can't advise you on what to do, but I can share how I am...

Thank you Neverthesame. I appreciate that you shared this and yes I was exaggerating again. I hope to avoid getting into situations where I am in danger of being threatened in future by not posting such provocative things. As stated before, the issues I raised are issues I genuinely feel...

Hey Barefoot. I found your response encouraging because you displayed a level or maturity which most who responded had not. Many of the subsequent posts have though, which also encourages me. You disagreed with almost everything I said but you gave reasons other than "You're sayin' I'm a...

Good morning. I am going to start with this. Ok as previously stated, what I said was that I don't have any advice for rapists or anything to say to them (apart from the obvious). "RAPE" is a very strong word and it stands out. I can see how this comes across as what I am saying because people...

I count myself among those you mentioned. Please elaborate on how what I said was offensive towards both genders. As for it not being effective, my intention was to draw awareness to what I perceive as a serious problem in our society with particular relevance to male ptsd sufferers, not make...

barefoot. Thank you. The way you responded is a little more encouraging. I would like to summarise what I said in the first post because the discussion has moved on quite a bit to reactions and to apparently how badly I have transgressed, but also largely because of the way I wrote it which was...

Hello. I am sorry about the place you find yourself in. I can suggest to you that you don't see relationships (friendship is a type of relationship) as a goal as this can lead people to put pressure on themselves and take people not wanting to get to know them as a reflection on their worth...

Neverthesame, I am sorry if I mis-gendered you. WE all make assumptions, mine was about your gender. Yours seem to be about my motivations for posting this and about my character. I feel that the provocative nature of my posts has led some to react without thinking starting with some rather...

Ok, I am going to start with what this has to do with PTSD. I said that people who have been through things in their life can often focus on that and not on the damage they have caused, further I went on to talk about how some men who have been through things can feel as if they need to somehow...

Hey. If you are reading this then you have probably gone through something, if you haven't then you probably care a lot about someone who did and them going through something counted as you going through something. To put it simply, you probably see yourself as a kind of victim. Well, hate to...

Um... Reading what you said made me angry. Not angry with you or course... The bit about your "friend" - I hope that this person is now in jail, in hell or that you have no contact with him. I have written about my experiences a lot and won't bore you with them, but let me say that I have been...