Recent content by Rose2

(reoccurring nightmares) Still grateful we are back together, but beginning to feel uneasy of what might happen in the future. I have been having reoccurring nightmares that he will push me away again. things are going great but that does not stop my fear

Thank you catlover26, counseling is a must. He told me that he has a hard time finding the right words to say and expresses his love through actions. Since my last post we have discussed it and he said he will do whatever we need to do to make a great life together. I told him that now our...

Thank you for the honesty. I realize I can not continue with him unless he agrees to counseling. That would be the only way to continue in this relationship. I cannot get my heart embedded in a man who may not be willing to learn to communicate with the person he loves. That is if he loves.

It's been three months now since I've heard from him. My veteran wants to start over and take things slow, but I've noticed a change in him. Don't know if it's my imagination. I always tend to over analyze things. I've talked to him about isolation and he says that he didn't do that, he was just...

Welcome BlessedRUs

BlessedRU's, I would be greatful for a support buddy. My ex fiancé left me 2 months ago and started isolating himself. No contact. We were to be married in March. Dated a yr and a half. It hurts so very much, he was very kind, loving and supportive. Never had I met anyone like him before. He has...

I agree completely Julzzze, it is their battle alone and only they can decide to accept help from others, meaning doctors or counseling; whatever it takes. I've seen enough to know how lonely he is because of his isolation. I am not living this way, I am seeking outside help for my depression...

Julzzze, 3 years is a long time. Are you two still working on it? I only had a yr and a half invested but I put my whole heart into it. What hurts the most is not knowing what really happened when we were togetherr day and night. I am sorry you are hurting and hope you find some peace. It...

thank you so much. I am glad to have found this site. I am going to see a counselor next week. Jut now able to talk about it without crying.

We were engaged to be married 7 days ago. He left me 6 weeks ago suddenly and without a reason. We were together a year and a half. He was the sweetest person I have ever known, he was my best friend and I still love him with all my heart. When we first met he told me he had communication...