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@MMS99! I'm going through a similar situation and honestly the advice of focusing on yourself and how you can take care of your emotional well being is the best advice. We cannot control the sufferers behavior, but we do have control of how it effects us by drawing boundaries and practicing self...

Thank you. This is exactly what I'm doing right now. I've started living a life for myself and our child. We do things every day together after school (park, yard, bike rides, adventures, errands, groceries, art projects). I've reconnected with old friends and made new ones who I spend time with...

I'm going to talk about this with my therapist today. I need to determine where my boundaries are and what I can enforce when I know that asking him to go no contact would be immediately broken. I did ask that she not come to our house when I'm home with our child. That has been followed for the...

Thank you Killashandra, Shimmerz, and miniftw. I feel like the suggestion that I'm still allowing our co-dependency to exist by not setting boundaries on the platonic relationship may be spot on. I'm afraid to let him know how I view things now because I don't want to push him into further self...

After a recent stressful event, my husband was diagnosed with C-PTSD relating to childhood neglect and emotional abuse. The last few months have been exceedingly stressful due to the fact that he squarely places blame on me for everything that has gone wrong in his life since I met him (over a...