I was abused mentally, physically, and mentally until I was 15. My parents divorced when I was 9 and my father took off and that's when my sister and my abuse started. When I was 17 a guy who was 30 started dating me, my first, I got married, had 2 children, and changed everything so he could have the perfect wife. I then divorced and met a man who has lied to me about crazy things and I am trying to break away from him. He doesn't work, hasn't in over 17 years and has been and done so much I wonder why I still care.