Recent content by Valariexx

Thank you for the encouragement EverOnly... Yes, hugs are definitely welcome at this time. A delay with his apartment leaves his things still here in our house, who knows where he's staying tonight. Even though I so badly wanted more time with him, when he asked about arrangements, I asked him...

Thank you Jesse. I'm having a hard time taking care of myself through all of this. But I do appreciate your advice. And I sometimes wonder if he's blaming his PTSD for just not wanting a life together anymore. But I can't understand how he wouldn't want to get help. Thanks everyone for giving me...

I can see how his career is his identity (active duty 10 years) and he's taking solace in something familiar and something he can be successful at. Thank you for that Junebug...

Thank you everyone, for your compassionate words. Yes, I've done a lot of reading on grieving this type of loss and usually the genders aren't able to be emotionally supportive of each other. I just wish he would stay in our lives and work forward together. But he tells me he's numb and can't...

Thank you Ayesha. Yes, I've been seeing a counselor since losing our son. At this point I'm just trying to cope with my partner's needs. I know I should focus on myself and my son but I'm so worried for him. I love him, miss him and just wish this wasn't happening.

I’m struggling with my ex-fiance leaving our home, needing his space, however my grief is coupled with delivering a stillborn baby on Dec. 1st, just a month ago. The first week after my son died, he was attentive and supportive… Everything I could have asked for. The following week he began...

On December 1st I delivered our still born son. For the first week he was going through the motions, making sure I was taken care of and from what I could see suppressing his own needs. Everything hit him the following week. He didnt want to be at home, with me or my 9 year old son. He began...