Recent content by ZAFF

Almost a year

She is in therapy working through this. I dont want to give you the impression that she's mean or coldhearted, she's the complete opposite. Times when she is flooding, I try to comfort her, usually by talking with her but that leads to more questions and pressure from me. I know she's getting...

A little more Guys thank you for your responses. I know the things that I have done they have not worked. Usually when she's flooding, I have tried to talk to her about it. This consists of questioning, pressing for answers, pushing her to talk, overbearing with a lot about our...

anger i don't know if i am angry, but when i get triggers it becomes rage and i internilize it. it's not normal anger. but it angers me that i don't know why i get rage with such vile thoughts and then if i have sex i dissasociate. sometimes i dissascociate even when i'm not having sex. i'm...

violent thoughts i have them, don't understand where they come from, but the extent terrifies me. they are so vile.i have two kinds with two extremes. i feel your fear. it's more than fear, it's terrifying to think there ias a part of you that thinks that way, you are not alone

triggers i have them but can't figure out what causes them or why i have them. but when it happens i can't think straight or hear what people are saying, i go numb. my therapist says to feel something to bring me back into the present, the problem is , is that my body remmebers but my mind...

I am dating a woman who has found out recently she suffers from PTSD related to her childhood. I am at a complete loss because I do not understand it, how it is, the feelings associated with it etc. I've done reading a lot about combat vets, not too much on individuals that had childhood...