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I truly respect how you challenge me, though I giggled at your evaluation of my both sides language - I couldn't be further from black and white thinking although you nailed it and that is exactly how it sounds. Thank you for causing me pause to examine the words I use to try and process all...

I totally understand what you have both said about the whole person and I don't disagree. I hear you. I know that M. is a whole person - perhaps it is more about this imbalance between the "sides" of one being that is affecting everything for me and for him... for us. To be clear, I have been...

This is exactly where I am at this morning. Thank you for this. I have a lot to think about. My heart is breaking because his struggle is so hard to witness. I feel REALLY guilty for wanting to run. That's where I am right now, even though I know it is the best thing I could do for myself right now.

I posted this last night at the end of a long older thread and I think I should have started a new post. Forgive me as I am new to this kind of thing: All these stories are so relevant to me. I'm sorry that this is long, but it is my first post and I'm at my breaking point. thanks for reading...

Thank you for this thread. This is exactly where I find myself this morning and knowing I am not alone helps a little.

All these stories are so relevant to me. I'm sorry that this is long, but it is my first post and I'm at my breaking point. thanks for reading if you have the time. I could use the advice of others who have been here. I met my partner M. just five months ago and I'm not sure I can do it anymore...