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Thank you for this it was interesting to read. It’s been a few weeks since we spoke now but there has been small reactions to my messages in the interim. I’m new to this and hearing your first hand account has been helpful to read. I thought I wasn’t taking it personally but I guess I was...

Got you! Out of interest does he appreciate the continued outreach or at the very least doesn’t see it as an issue?. I don’t want to come across smothering but I’m conscious that she’s said she doesn’t know how or why I would want to love her. So I’m on the fence between consistent communication...

Hi Notgoodatnames, This is really helpful, as I can also relate to this which makes sense if it’s so difficult for us then I cannot imagine what it must be like for our partners. It’s also interesting as she has used the exact same language “I do want x, I just cant” This is really helpful...

Thank you for taking time to respond. Being honest if I didn’t think she was worth it I wouldn’t be here. This is probably because I knew her pre trauma & I know from spending time with her that that women is still there but she is hurting. I did feel hurt initially (and I do a little still)...

Hi All, I’m new here & came across your forum when looking for help. I have recently started dating an amazing woman. I’ve known her for nearly 20 years, during that time we’ve always had a connection but have both been in long relationships. We recently reconnected and started dating. She’s...

Hi Everyone, Recently came across your forum when looking for help and support as I’ve recently started dating someone who has been severely abused in previous relationships. The kindness & support I’ve seen from everyone here to each other convinced me to register. I do have some questions...