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What if you try to get him to focus on your wedding anniversary and the girls Jods? I hope you both get through the weekend ok :thumbs-up

What a great name! Jen

Thats what made me so cranky about this Jods he knows the feet can become a problem if not looked after! Do they ever listen?:crazy:

Hi Jods I hope you are right!:hello:

It must have been lovely to see your son Kathy! Jen

Still all good news so far Kathy fingers crossed! Jen

Oh the latest is he has an ingrown toenail the doc said if it doesnt clear up he will take it out. He had an appointment the other day and could not get out of bed so now we have to wait two weeks to see the Doc. Now its infected so he has to take antbiotics to clear it up if he would have gone...

Thank you ladies we actually had a talk last night and I told him about my feelings after a bit of an argument and we settled down and became civil about it I explained to him that he puts me down when he talks to me and he needed to know this! Anyway we have agreed that we will try harder to...

Hi Geek welcome to the forum! Has he become violent towards you? It becomes difficult when you have been married so long to see the change in them hey? Feel free to express yourself here you will feel better! Jen

Sometimes when I am around hubby especially at work ( we run a small business together) or if we are doing things around the house I find myself sometimes feeling nervous around him I am waiting for him to tell me I am doing something wrong as he usually does! I hate this feeling of not being...

Thanks Tammy thats it I am there when things get bad but sometimes things dont have to get bad if he would look after himself. I was talking to a friend who said her hubby walked his diabeties of with heaps of walking I mentioned this to hubby he just shrugged his shoulders. So it all comes down...

What makes me smile is it has been 4 months since my op and there is an old dear over at the golf club who is still giving me hand made get well card she puts a little joke in them every time. I told her not to do any more but she said she enjoys it so I will let her go I am sure she will run...

Hi whats the chances of us carers having a thread and write about anything that makes you smile as we know sometimes we let our partners / sufferers problems become overbearing and we dont think about ourselves! It doesnt matter how trivial the reason is just a smile a day hey! Something that...

Thats good to see Kathy good to see she is handling things ok! Jen

Ah yes Ryair thank you thats what I plan to do! Do they ever gtow up? Oh well the Doc is sure to say something when he seems him I hope so anyway! And yep you gave me a smile:hello:

Hi Ms if you look at previous threads I think it may have been last year we had conversations about secondary PTSD as quite a few spouses seem to have this problem. Welcome Jen!

Thanks guys I just dont get it as I had major surgery earlier this year and have had to change my diet and keep an eye on a few things with my body changes and he is always nagging at me to make sure I dont lift things etc to hurt myself I am not stupid and I wont do things that I know I...

Hubby was diagnosed with Diabeties Class 2 which can be controlled by diet and exercise his GP sent him to a specialist before then he was walking and just starting to ride his bike. We went and saw this Doc and he said his sugar level is not to bad so just to keep an eye on things and gave him...

Wow Kathy I dont see why you would be overwhelmed you havent got that much on at the moment:rofl: Hang in there and I hope things run smoothly for you over the next few days we will just talk amongst ourselves:wink: Jen

Hubby is not bad at the moment fingers crossed! We are looking at moving out of town so he has a project happening. He said last night he is looking forward to this next part of our life. I just dont want him to stress out to much over it as he tends to go at things like a bull at a gate! I will...

Bec all the best today ( or tomorrow) time difference! Remember baby steps and jump on here if you need to express yourself! Jen

Thanks Kathy it was a lovely restful weekend my sis is near the beach at a small town on the coast. I was tired driving up I was surprised at how tired I was I did a couple of extra stops? I suppose I am still not quite right after the op? Anyway we had some wines and laughs it was a good...

Hi Kathy that is great that the cat has attached itself to Evie as they are the best therapy. When I had my op my daughter had a photo of my dog waiting for me when I came out out of the surgery:smile: You will have to go and get yourself another one now!:think: Good to see that Evie is...

Hubby seems a bit better the last couple of days I think me being able to go to work and him not worry about it to much has helped as his stress level is down. I am taking off today up to my sisters for the weekend. Am looking forward to it! Hubby will be staying at home with all the animals its...

Thats good news Kathy glad to see that you and Jim can have a bit of R and R as well! Jen