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Well as you know I have not had a good year with my health ( which is getting better) and not a real good year with Hubby!
But today I am excited I am going to see Elton John tonight he is coming up to Townsville and playing at the local football stadium. They think it may rain but he said he...
Yeh thanks Kathy we went away but it wasnt a great weekend things didnt go to plan as he was going to go out on a fishing trip and they had to cancel because of mechanical problems.
He was so cranky and so was I as he was looking forward to it!
Anyway as far as he was concerned after that the...
Thanks Clare I was thinking that! When I got home from work I gave him a cuddle and said Are you ok? He said he doesnt know why he has these days? We know but he tends to not want to know!
So I just said if you want to talk I will listen and left it at that.
We are going away for a couple of...
Hubby has been really down this week he assures me that we are going to go away on the weekend like we planned but I am not real confident! I am going with or without him!
My question is if a sufferer is really down like he has been what would the likely reaction be if I remind him that he...
yes Jim we do and we spoke about moving recently but at this time finance doesnt allow us to move because of our business we are here for another couple of years at least?
We are not involved with the Army any more he lost all his mates as he stopped socialising. His best mate is in Kuwait at...
Yeh thanks Jim it is frustrating I keep racking my brain as to thinking what had bought him down?
I suppose unless he talks about I wont find out? But he doesnt talk. It could have been anything that triggered of this episode. I cant help him unless he talks!
Life has to go on we are running a...
Hubby is really down the last couple of days. I can rack my brain wondering whats bought this on I have no idea I think it has been building up he seemed to be not good last week?
He wont get out of bed he got out of bed last night ate some pizza then went back to bed.
What more can you do? I...
Hang in there you two!
You seem to be having a loving and understanding relationship regardless of whats getting thrown at you. There has to be a light at the end of this long tunnel?
Thats a hard one Nicolette trust me I know! We have been married 26 years and their are days I would love to kick him in the butt and rip his head of.
BUT I know if he sees that he has upset me that much he seems to go downhill further it really is a case for me that I have my own escapes like...
Yes Tammy if he is depressed because he is a feeling a failure because of the money situation keep an eye on that. You need to reassure him that you will get through it ok.
Hubby crashed badly last year when the realization hit him that he was not the supporter of the family if you know what I...
Poor bugger she cant win hey!
Thats the trouble something like that would upset a few sufferers I know hubby sometimes would be jumpy with sudden noises.I hope she settles Kathy and I hope you all can get some rest.
Jen
Well he went into work today and I managed to get my day off I rang him to make sure he was out of bed and he was up earlier today and went of to work.:clap:
I know he will sleep in for the rest of the week but at least I got my day off!
There are days I see something that needs to be picked up or put away and I just dont do it?
Why is that? I know if I dont it wont get done it will stay there until I do it?