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I hit 50 in July and did a complete health check up. All blood work, colonoscopy, calcium score (highly recommend for heart attack risk/insurance doesn't cover but cheap) and prostate exam. Everything was great minus an enlarged prostate where the problem was a lobe of the prostate grew into...

When I walked into my therapist office the first time and many times since there is a 5-10 minute period of time for whatever reason before things get going. I blink and I see my therapist watching the clock behind me. Nothing against her because she has someone sitting outside. After a few...

My last thread on the subject was "Best thing for him really, his therapy was going nowhere". I've actually been doing a lot of introspection and wonder if therapy is really good for everyone. According to my wife and therapist I am taking on her trauma to deal with my own which I never dealt...

The title is a quote from Dr. Hannibal Lecter in Silence of the Lambs. Unlike the man he was speaking of I am alive and my head is not in a jar. Like the man he was speaking of I do feel like my therapy is going nowhere. I won't go so far as to say I have not benefited because I think I have...

I was messaging a friend I met here about the trouble I've had 2 years post therapy of dealing with my wife's date rape 25 years ago. I have a thread on it "just found out the details of my wife's rape" that was very helpful and got me in therapy where I still am today. My biggest problem is...

I've got another thread posted about my wife's rape. When I found the site I didn't roam around. I just got straight to the point and started my own thread with my own issues. It's been a great help and I figured I needed a separate thread to cover the topic. All I know is my own experience...

I've been married for close to 15 years. Prior to getting married we made disclosures about each others past that we thought were pertinent. One my wife made was that she was date raped. The subject was obviously very stressful to her and I did not inquire further. The bottom line was it did...