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I have to agree with that haha

I don't want to talk about having kids or marriage, I have just picked up on things from his comments that concern me. We have both been engaged and betrayed by our exes.. I definitely am not wanting marriage anytime soon. He just confuses me because he says one thing.. Yet acts a different...

Hey everyone! I've been with my guy for about 8 months now, things are good for the most part. I have learned what sets him off and avoid it etc. One thing that bothers me is that he says he doesn't want to marry or have children. I want both or those things. He isn't open about his emotions at...

I take klonopin. I've tried Xanax too. It didn't work well for me. Klonopin takes about 30 minutes to and hour for me to feel the relaxation feel from it, but it definitely works for me. I mainly only take it at night so I can sleep best.. I tend to get my worst anxieties at night when I'm alone...

I feel the same

My issue was that he had a problem with it AFTER the fact. Not during. I was just getting aggravated because he wouldn't be serious.. and then when he had enough of me talking about it, he finds something upsetting to say. That's just how he is. I agree, I shouldn't compare myself and that is...

I agree. It's just something I am still adjusting to and having a hard time now I suppose. The relationship feels one sided and that I'm the only one trying or even that cares and I'm tired of feeling guilty of feeling that way when I know he has issues with the PTSD. I'm not trying to change...

I never said I wanted to show him off. Having a personal picture for myself is all I wanted. Honestly I think it all comes down to him not wanting to do any of the things his exes use to do. That's all I can get out of it. He made no wishes clear until after the fact when I was like.. I wish you...

@MoeX the pictures where before I suppose. I know I shouldn't do that to myself, but it drives me crazy. Like I am paying for what someone else did wrong to him. He doesn't yell at me he just shuts down. Anything that is even remotely related to emotions he won't talk about and if he even starts...

I am not really sure what you mean by "step back". We hardly talk during the week (if at all). I feel like we have a lot of space and then we have our weekends. He may feel and see differently and I'm sure he does.

That's why I left last night. I felt horrible for just leaving like that but I was going to cry if I didn't get out of there. I do things for him that show how I feel. I know actions are louder than words and prove more. He doesn't do or say things often at all but when he does it is so special...

hahaha thank you :happy:

hahahah yes I am and probably so! It's like any chance of any feelings coming around, he get's all weird and goofy-- which is fine, but there is a time when you need to be honest and straight up with me. I feel like he can't admit his feelings for me. It's just hard when I know what kind of...

This relationship is a roller coaster.. I HATE roller coasters! My boyfriend and I have been together over 7 months. We have not had one serious talk as far as our relationship goes. No I love you, nothing. He won't even take a picture with me for goodness sakes and when we do he can't make a...

I contacted him last night. He has 4 tests today that deal with work.. I totally forgot about them. He stresses about stuff like this so now I know what has been up with him..

Yeah I thought we had a pattern! lol

The last time he went all MIA and quiet on me, I would contact him and he straight up said I was annoying him and to leave him alone. So, I did. Over a week later he contacted me like nothing ever happened. That was at the start of our relationship, so I have learned to not expect to hear from...

Thanks guys! I guess my insecurities get the best of me and I automatically assume it's because he may be losing interest. I feel that that is something I hve to work on within myself. (I also suffer from depression and am medicated and seeking the help I need, he motivates me to get better even...

I spend every weekend with my boyfriend who has PTSD. The only communication we have besides in person on weekends, is very little texting and back and forth on Facebook (very rare on my end when it comes to facebook). Some times we will go a few days without talking, that I don't understand...

Do you work out regularly? Seems to help my boyfriend with his PTSD and his sex drive.

Thank you guys so much! It's def a work in progress. I feel that I have lots to look forward to.

Makes sense. We both do all those things-- just not the 3 words. I don't say those words to anyone besides my parents really. Honestly, I think it's just going to slip out of my mouth because at times it's all I can think when I look at him. No one has ever done that to me.

Yes they have no clue about PTSD. I have actually met a girl from this site who is dating a sufferer as well, and she has become one of my good friends. Not only are we a lot a like but we are going thru this together and can depend on each other for advice. I honestly don't think it would of...

That makes sense MoeXc. I honestly think he may be scared or waiting for me to say it and like Meghan87 said, his PTSD does consume a lot of my thoughts because I don't want to cross a line. I have gotten good at keeping things civil. I feel that I am also being insecure because of what has...

Thank you Marf. Do you think maybe that is what he is afraid of? Rejection from me? All along I am thinking I will get rejected from him.