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Thank you.... I do love him dearly. Today he didn't contact me...but I finally called him. He said he didn't want to talk or text, fb, just no contact with anyone. I said "cool, understand, good night and ttyl." Then I see he is on fb with other people... It really hurts... I'm not high...

I sympathize with you Atomic. I finally decided, after 3 sleepless nights and horrific days of silence, that I had to change my mindset and heartset...so to speak. I now say to myself "He may be IN my life, but he cannot BE my life" . It helped me to realize I'm not letting go of him/us, but...

Thank you Saelben for telling me that I should "introduce" myself. It's nice to be pointed in the right direction :) I'm not new to "Personality Disorders", but I am new to PTSD and to the military. I am bi-polar (controlled), have suffered trauma, physical and mental, and have my own demons...

Thank you both for replying. I have been reading a lot in this forum, and you're right...most people are dealing with the same as I am. You are right, it may not be a relationship that I can handle. It wouldn't be fair to him either. The person I want to ask most is him...I respect his...

HaraBane, I'm proud of you for finding out whyour you felt the way you do. My husband for 15 years has OCPD, and as with any PD, it got worse as time went on. He would never admit there was a problem so he never (still hasn't) gotten treatment. It is nice to hear you talk about your side of the...

My user name that I chose "catching him", is because that is what he tells me I'll need to do when he gets home from active duty. I already feel like I'm "catching him". I met him 2 weeks before he deployed. As with many of you, our relationship moved REALLY fast to the serious stage of "I...