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Update. We spoke again this morning, as she was visibly upset over it all, especially since I'm there for her girls too. But she offered me to come out with her and the girls today to just have something to do, so I wasn't alone and overthinking. Infact we had a nice day and even as friends...

In addition, she says she doesn't want to hurt me anymore by not giving me what a relationship deserves. I can tell she's upset over this. But I can see where she's coming from. She's woken up this morning messaging me making sure I'm okay, she does care. Probably hurts me more because a...

Thank you for your replies. I see your points. Maybe shes doing it for the wrong reasons but to be honest I cannot force her to change her mind on it. I can only go with it. If I argue my side of things it makes her feel like I'm guilting her or looking for pity, which is a big trigger for...

So, they came home, things seemed good. Until we ended up talking last night... We've broken up. She still loves me and deep down doesn't want this, but struggling with life, herself, etc and not being able to put anything into the relationship, she says it's for the best that we don't drag...

Okay, so.. One week until they left to go away, we've had contact literally everyday, some days it might have been two messages at most. Had updates of what they have been up to. Which is nice. What was getting to me was that although when we talk I've asked how she is, she's never once asked...

Thank you, I will obviously continue to update this thread as and when, as I do like to get responses from people whom are in similar situations, to ensure I'm not losing my mind! It's hard to talk to people about this, as I don't have many good friends who I can go this in depth with, and I...

Thank you for your input in this :) I'm happy to learn about this, to broaden my understanding and to be able to support better. I probably shouldn't have mentioned about the hiding of the relationship, this isn't due to the other issues and is more of a legal situation to avoid some hassle...

Strange you should say that, I thought that would be the case but she is straight to the point when talking and prefers to do it in person. We've been okay since me starting this thread. But as of tomorrow evening she is away for a while, so no doubt we will communicate via message when she...

@Kubash16 Thank you for the reply. To be honest I just miss the communication at home, as I feel that lack of this causes my mind to stress/wander/panic, of which I am seeking help for, to be at peace with myself. I understand she doesn't want to see me unhappy, and I can see how being alone...

Good morning everyone. I have recently been trawling through the forum and found plenty of valuable information, but I feel the time is now for me to join up and express the issues I am facing, hoping to gain some knowledge and hopefully help me out. Basically, my current partner and I got...