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She just called me and broke up with me. I'm pretty distraught. But I appreciate everyone trying to help.

I wish I could have told her my logic behind it before she left. I feel like it’s too late to do that now, her hyper-vigilance may make her see it as me trying to invalidate her. To be clear, my supporters are not involved with her at the time, so they have not seen her side of it nor do they...

That is such a helpful thread. This has all been so helpful, I can't thank you enough. I don't feel the guilt as strongly, and I understand and respect her space even more. The biggest thing I'm struggling with now is handling the unknowns. It seems like this could resolve in a million different...

You've given me great advice and insight and I appreciate that so much. If you don't mind me asking, was there ever a point where you, or maybe someone else you knew, required no contact space like this? I know that different situations need different amounts of time and space, but how long did...

I want to reach out to her so bad. Would a text or call be out of the question?

I know her very well and I definitely think that's what's going through her head. It sucks that I can't make her feel safe right now. Just an update, I still have not heard from her. She has been posting on social media, and seems to be hanging with friends. She's been spending a lot of time...

My worry is that her trauma will get into her head and not only will she never feel safe around me, but around others either. I'm learning to forgive myself, but it's tough. We had a somewhat stressful weekend with both of our depressions and anxieties before this happened so that doesn't help...

I think she would be if she felt safe enough, and that's actually something I would love to do and have thought about before. The issue though is getting her back to trusting me :( I miss her so much

This is my first time on this forum, I'm unsure on who to turn to. Please be warned that this post gets sexual. My (25m) girlfriend (22F) have been together for over a year. It's been truly magical, near perfect, and extremely healthy. She has severe PTSD from sexual childhood trauma, but I...