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Ok, I think i am triggered and it is emotional and it might be to do with the guy and my own insecurities, but also i am not getting my needs met in independence and space, and i need to act on that to feel in control i think. I don't think it is about not hanging out with people because i hang...

Thanks for feedback, i keep going between the ideas that really i just get really triggered by the guy, who is really awesome and and connects with women and others better than me and then i critisize self and shut-down, and i should try and stay and learn how to heal this, Vs me actually just...

-I am writing this because I have been getting pretty stressed out lately, i have actually seen my hairline recide in the last 2 months! and i feel hormonal like up-and-down lately like i haven’t in a long time, I think I am getting easily triggered. anyways below is what’s going on, sry if it...

hey All, I just thought i would post an update, so its been like 1 and a half months, havn't talked much, but she continued to not be able to verify things, and then had some friend try to vouch for her as a doctor but i saw on his FB that he isn't a full doctor just a clinic person, and i...

Ok i missed abunch of those responses before I posted what I just posted, but ya, I have no plans to visit anymore, because she has lied recently and is A) being extremely irresponsible and harmful to her own health (but she also apparently visited a counselor yesterday and will hopefully go to...

hmm interesting. It is looking like she might be scamming me, or atleast lying. She said she got meds yesterday after checkup, when I asked her to take picture of them she tried to take pic of generic ones from the front, when i asked for pic of back to see the writing on cartridges she said i...

hmm I truly do believe her, it would take too much commitment to pull this off, crying and up at every hour of night in east africa. I am thinking of visiting but am going to talk it over with friend over next few days first. Ok and if she is somehow scamming me, any ideas of trying to find out...

Ya you make good points. I am pretty sure she is not scamming me, but I need to take care of myself too and not get too invested in helping. We did have a good connection though (feels like we became good friends, shared alot with each other) and it is tough because I feel like she has no one...

So ya she is African, she is a university student, 21, I am 26. She was kinda well adjusted beforehand but didn't have a lot of friends because all hers are getting married and she moved around alot with her aunt prior to this. Her aunt is paying for her expensive tuition, but she has to work...

It’s me though that thought the meningitis was caused by her hitting her head, after i thought I read that from somewhere, i suppose it could have happened some other way though. And I don't think it is that she got meningitis twice in such a short period, i don't think it was ever fully...

Hmm, ok. Ya i know she can't really faint and hit her head on purpose, i think she was exaggerating there because she is angry with her situation and is in pain. Well she is a responsible person, except when she isn't which is when it comes to herself, she is very independent - . She can be...

Ya, So i was in the states, I had been hanging out with her for 2 weeks in the beginning of February, she lives in a decent size city of about 500,000. She took the plan-b/morning after pill in mid february, and then becuase of side-effects and such was super weak, fainted, hit head, and got...

She said she fainted the other day and purposely landed on her head hard, because she doesn't want to be here anymore. I think she could deal with the meningitis or the rape but both together is alot, and the meningitis I think kind of messed with her brain, it is like brain damage, and...

Hello, I was with someone 2 months ago while I was traveling for about 2 weeks in a developing country (east africa - I'm from the US), we made a strong connection though. At one point the condom slipped and so we were worried because there was a small chance she could get pregnant, so I...