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So I had therapy today and I finally got up the nerve to actually talk about the issue with my therapist today. I had Ibeen holding back because I know as soon as I started talking about it I would have a total breakdown, and of course I did. Our sessions usually are only 50 minutes but this...

I'm not sure how being a nun works, maybe you could leave for a little while to "experience life" and then rejoin?

I have very similar sleep issues. The only difference is, after having read you post just now, it finally clicked for me the cause of the fear triggering my extreme insomnia. I want to thank you for that. Unfortunately I don't have any great advise. A couple things you could try that you may...

I am so very Sorry to hear all of This! I am new here. I was in a ridiculously abusive relationship for 10 years. I was raped and beaten an uncountable amount of times, so I can kind of understand a little bit of what you are going through. most of the people here are great and very helpful. I...

Oh my god this happens to me all the time! I never made the connection to my PTSD.Same thing for me sleep meant bad things would happen. I tried all sorts of sleeping pills. sometimes they work most of the time Im awake through it. When I start to doze off I get this really dizzy falling...

I do appreciate you apologizing, but the fact of the matter is you did upset me quite a bit. I know I shouldn't let people get to me like that but I came here for help and specifically asked not to get comments like yours. I would hope in the future you take this into consideration and know that...

Perhaps you could be moved elsewhere? This is my trauma not yours and you have no right to continually Belittle my feelings especially when I specifically asked to not get comments like yours.

Yes its is definitely the pornography itself and also the breach of trust. I still have a very hard time discussing my feelings on this issue with anyone. I goes from talking to crying to full on hyperventilating panic attack very fast. I've bee in therapy for it a long time, about 7 years. We...

I would love to do joint therapy but we can not afford it. My insurance will not cover it and he has none. There are more problems all of them stemming from this issue. Lack of trust is probably the biggest. I trust him with my life in every other aspect. I guess at this point I kind of feel...

It seems I have carried over the "Its my job as the girlfriend to satisfy every need no matter what", from the previous relationship. I really do try very hard to do that. That's a part of why it hurts so bad that he still does it. With everything that I do for him, and its still not good...

Wow, thank you to many of you. I really could have done without Ed's comments. We have discussed the issue many times. As I stated earlier, I fully explained to him my situation and my stance at the very beginning of our relationship. This one issue is the only thing wrong in our relationship...

Hi, I'm new here. I am just looking for help and support and advise. I was in a bad relationship for a long time. There was severe physical, emotional and sexual abuse. Pornography was a very large part of the physical/sexual abuse. Now in my currant relationship I keep finding out he's been...