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Blueorange~ Wow..... I can feel the emotion in your response. Thank you for having this with me. It sounds like you were dealing with a lot and if she would've remained a bit more calm you may remained together. I'm grateful that there is no violence in our marriage. Just emotional garbage...

@BlueOrange Did you still love and want to be with your wife when you made this decision or had you already let go?

fridayjones- your response hit me the hardest. I actually had to step away for most of the day in order to take in everything you posted. It's unbelievable and heartbreaking at the same time trying to grasp your situation. It sounds so much like my husband. And reading your thoughts and daily...

Hailstorm- I've done most of the things you speak about and somedays it works and others not so much. My husband seems to be dealing with a lot of stuff all at once although he doesn't speak about it if i push aside the bs and the disrespect I can hear little pieces of info which offer insight...

So what do you recommend? I'm new to this group. Are there members on both sides of the situation? Is there a difference between combat ptsd and non combat ptsd or is the same thing?

Testing me for an out? He's made some many comments since his return home that I'm not sure what he's doing or thinking. For example I tell him I'm here for him and I'm a strong woman. He replied one day with well let's see just how strong you are.... were about to find out. Then on my Birthday...

I've been seeing a counselor for about 5 months now. She says her specialty is PTSD yet some of her advice I don't necessarily agree with. For example she says when he begins being disrespectful and saying hurtful things to get my keys and leave for the night. Shut my phone off and when I return...

I don't feel in danger. Just confused more than anything because I can't seem to understand how someone could be so rude and just cold hearted and not realize what they're doing? I guess the more I read an talk with everyone on here along with the counselor, the more I will understand. It's just...

We've been married 21 years. We've got the marriage everyone dreams about, until he returned from back to back overseas deployment due to work. Now he seems to e an empty shell.... Disrespect shovanistic comments, withdrawn from everyone me, kids, close friends and family. Sleeps with the same...

Hello everyone! I'm new to the site. Could you please give some insight into what you should and shouldn't tolerate with ptsd? My spouse returned from deployment 18mths ago and hasn't been the same, an is in denial. Things like not coming right home after work in fact coming home hours...

Hello Arfie! Lol so glad someone responded to one of my posts! This is my second one and I wasn't sure if anyone could even see them. My spouse is the one I believe has PTSD. However since he refuses to communicate about it or anything it's hard to decipher exactly what is going on. Everything...

Hello everyone, I'm new to the forum. Anyone have advice about deciphering if it's PTSD or somethig else? Still trying to absob everything even thought ya been over 18 months. I appreciate everyone's support in advance.

Thank you for sharing your story. Whatever you do don't give up. The fact that you can actually talk about it says a lot. Each day will get better.

Hello, I'm new to this forum but so grateful I found it. Sigh... Let me see where to begin. I've got a lot of history with my husband. We've been together more than 20 years. He's my soulmate, we rarely fight and our love in beyond anything you've seen in movies. 3 and a half years ago he went...