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Ive got a question... if given the option by your ptsd partner to just walk away bare yourself the pain when they are in a dark hole.... why is it so hard too.... just walking away .....im not a wife,i dont have obligations, .....all i know is that im a fighter i dont give up, i believe in him...

@darrenS is there a chance you will both work it out?

@patiomermaid how long have you been with your boyfriend if you dont mind me asking? do you live together or do you sometimes also feel like its a friendship/roommate feeling? im just trying to see if this is the norm impact on a supporter with a boyfriend with PTSD?

@patiomermaid we have been with eachother for nearly a year at the moment it feels like an exclusive friendship but still together if that makes sense.... im guessing alot of ppl feel like this when the other shuts down. Leaving is not an option for me right now and we dont want to lose...

Can i also add that my partner has also stated that " we have been brought up in two very different worlds" my family life had mum and dad and my sibblings with alot of love... his family life had his mum and dad they had him and then seperated and divorced and then had their own families which...

Hi There, Okay i have a questions for all those PTSD relationships out their. Currently my partner with combat PTSD is hitting rock bottom as he says it. He has voiced to me that he currently does not want to be touched and even hugging (although he will do if i ask) ...... kissing is also no...

Hi @Nam I'm not sure of your background history but it sounds like a breakthrough too me. Do you recieve treatment and are we talking about a diagnosed PTSD previously?

@Sighs try typing in traumaticstressclinic its a website with the com at the end

@Sweetpea76 great you can personally message me if thats easier

@Sighs ..also does he realise when he does this? and does he apologise and talk too you?

@Sighs .... right back at you :) Yes he thinks he will lose his Job yep trying to find him treatment in civvy-land haha....he is in the airforce do you know where i can obtain that info through the ADF to maybe show it to him so can give him that info.... there has got to be legislations or...

@Sighs and @Sweetpea76 .....oh the joy of what i'm in. dont mind me saying this but it would be so easy for me just to walk away and get out...but you know thats just not an option for me right now... because i love him and want to stand by him ..... i'm willing to go through this with him but...

Hi There, My partner has combat ptsd i have been with him for nearly a year. We are still together but it can be a day to day struggle at times especially when he is currently hitting rock bottom ...this is my first experience and i have never seen him this affected before. We do not live...

@Momofthree i guess you do the best you can at times. thats exactly hows his feeling right now, its definently hard to hold on but he has promised he will keep trying. i feel deep down if it is time to go i will..but i reassured him that i dont want to go anywhere just yet....his not angry for...

@Ladyghosthunter thankyou for your reply. It is true... what your saying. But i must admit that it can feel like a test to see how much the heart/love can cope with. Thats why i said that if i feel that my heart/love for him cant take anymore i would promise to leave but for now i just want to...

@Momofthree and @Sweetpea76 and @Junebug and @ptsdspouse2b and @shimmerz and@Fridayjones and @Santa_Laurie ...What a night just saw him. Was very mixed emotions got very confused... he doesnt see the point because of the way his feeling right now...downward spiral of hell.... And said that i...

@Momofthree thankyou :)... im guessing your a mom of three? ...they are very lucky kids.. :) that advice you just gave me was very nice and calming.

@Momofthree and @ptsdspouse2b and @Junebug and @shimmerz and @FridayJones and @Santa_Laurie and @Sweetpea76 and @Beachlife09 Friends keep putting stuff in my head tonight so i had to leave my night out im just on day 7/8 before i speak to him. They said that he may not want to see me on sunday...

Yeah his not much for surprises. I think he just accepts them sometimes because its from me and he doesnt like to see me upset even though it puts him in a whole different situation. I have been realising alot over the last few days. Its all okay i hit a comedy night tonight and i have been...

As i'm alot clearer today and not feeling too bad... its day 5 of 8 before i see him a little anxious because i've got alot to talk too.... i have recognised some things with the contact on here and just remmbering times when i have been with him with the way he has shown me love and showed...

@Sighs.... Homerun hey yeah your right just need to be stopped sometimes before i do. i know in the back of my head i shouldnt ring or text until sunday....just missing him.... ive got to remember also that it may not be a big deal to him..... i think he may be very shocked that i have lasted...

Hi @shimmerz and @Santa_Laurie and @Sighs and @Sweetpea76 I'm feeling alot clearer today and i have been writing alot down i've got so much to talk about with my other. Im on day 5/8 would it be so bad if i got in contact with him earlier to see if i can come around saturday? I know you have...

Such a great book read it twice in the last 2 weeks lol

@shimmerz thankyou for sharing it is a difficult one i know he did have abit of a rough upbringing farmboy. His mum and dad separated when he was 3 and he went to live with his mum to which she then remarried and had 3 more children He describes it as being the outcast of the family because his...

Hi There, I've been with my partner for nearly a year now he has diagnosed PTSD and depression. I've said i love you to him but he has never been able to say it back is this part of PTSD? We were having a bit of a discussion/argument one night and he was saying things like " you should leave...