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I understand how painful being blown off like this can be. You didn't see it coming and have no idea what happened or why. Been there. Don't beat yourself up for being honest. You didn't and couldn't have understood what both you and she were and are dealing with. My BF broke it off with me via...

Th Thank you for your response. It was kind of a silly question on my part... He has told of some things he has feared since I've known him- and I'm sorry to say right now that as charming as they were at the time, I didn't take them entirely seriously, because they didnt seem like a big...

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Thanks for your insights Mary. I was advised to leave him alone and he'll most likely follow the pattern and return; but I know he has abandonment issues and I couldn't do it. I've tried a non- demanding reach out and touch tactic. I think you're right that he's afraid- but I dont know what...

Cat Catching Him, Please reach out for detailed information about combat PTSD. You need to know how your man has been trained and what he has been trained to do. You mention that he may delay retirement since he enjoys the privileges of rank. There are also responsibilities that go along...

I hope that things have improved for you since you posted and that you are both in a better place than at the beginning of the month. That said, its not unusual for someone starting therapy to have exacerbated symptoms. Hard to deal with, but true. Its like all the built up poison begins to...

Thank you! Hugs are most welcome for getting through the tough days.

I stumbled on this site a couple of weeks ago- I was looking for any sort of insight or answers or guidance. And I found a lot of help here. I'm grateful for that. Even so, its still a tough row to hoe some days. I connected with an OIF/OEF vet last year. Like so many others here, my experience...

AKZ: condolences on the loss of your mom, this is a surely a very difficult time for you. Will you learn not to push loved ones away? Hopefully, yes. The fact that you are aware that this was not a good choice and are acknowledging that fact is very positive. Can you tell your fiancee what you...