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    I forgive myself for .........

    I forgive myself for being exhausted this past week.
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    I forgive myself for .........

    I forgive myself for attempting these moves and looking hideous - But hey its da weekend ! These are stress busting moves and this mans a legend. My official weekend strut - "the robot".
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    Relationship Had My Own Little Breakthrough Today

    This ! Thanks @Anon1 I could not have put it into words better myself . A boundary within high toxicity perhaps does not need in depth explanations . A boundary within a loving, caring, commitment- definitely mutuality, agreement, negotiations, share perspective, exchange concerns...
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    I forgive myself for .........

    For having TWO coffeezzzzz! Yikes . I forgive myself for procrastinating a mundane task - hhhhmmmph.
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    What Song Are You Listening To Right Now?

    These moves will drive away the blues and get the BPM pumpin'- its Friyaaaaaaay!
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    Sufferer I hate this diagnosis

    Dogs are good listeners - especially when they tilt their head and perk the ears.
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    Relationship Frustrated Today

    THIS! Hi @Sweetpea76 ! Love your name BTW. Thanks for this insight because some of us leave such a wide berth( on their request) as an act of love for our sufferers -and compassion, grace and patience. As a supporter I tend to rationalise ( like @Anon1 )make up "stories " (clinical speak )in...
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    Relationship Had My Own Little Breakthrough Today

    So you perhaps built deep connections and deep bonds to a degree, classified as a couple and not a " causal passing phase". Given that you've known each other a year and it was intense- I.M.O it was a bit harsh for your loved one to go M.I.A ( its just what I term it) Perhaps it is "space"...
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    Relationship Had My Own Little Breakthrough Today

    You have really thought this out and I do hear the rationalising in your head - I do the same . You are 100% relationships are about love and care . They are never black and white ( that perspective is counterproductive) Profound ! Yes ! Life is short - don't know if you are 20's, 30's,40's or...
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    Relationship Had My Own Little Breakthrough Today

    Agreeeeeee. It feels more like being stone-walled. Possibilities are endless.....lets see: Silent treatment disguised as a boundary. Stonewalling disguised as "space". Ghosting and discard packaged as space AND a boundary( "call it a boundary so it sounds better") A dump and run painted as not...
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    Relationship Had My Own Little Breakthrough Today

    :-) Agree.We possibly were in a relationship with identical twins. Word- for -word so true. OR they are seeing the same Psych. (It felt like a slap in the face ,MORE like - "I have to look after me and set these boundaries for me , cant meet, cant call- oh and you don't matter anymore and...
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    How does seeking abuse fit with Avoidance symptoms?

    Correct me if I am wrong - but this has a vague similarity to whats termed Stockholm syndrome. Only drew a connection to it at random.
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    What Song Are You Listening To Right Now?

    Walk the line - Mr Johnny Cash. What an icon.
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    Relationship Cptsd relationship end

    Thank you -Beautifully said@Ecdysis- and if LOVE itself - is unconditional- that is, meaning the REAL deal - it doesn't discriminate.
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    Pain threshold

    Hi @Solveig- I rarely reply posts - but I stumbled onto your post for a reason just now. Please 1) stay safe 2) know you are NEEDED by another soul in despair 3) Google Nick Vujicic on u tube ( I don't know your religious standing and I respect everyones choices - but please ,google him as a...
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    What Song Are You Listening To Right Now?

    Speaks to the soul- try to keep a dry eye.
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