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I forgive myself for attempting these moves and looking hideous - But hey its da weekend !
These are stress busting moves and this mans a legend. My official weekend strut - "the robot".
This ! Thanks @Anon1
I could not have put it into words better myself .
A boundary within high toxicity perhaps does not need in depth explanations .
A boundary within a loving, caring, commitment- definitely mutuality, agreement, negotiations, share perspective, exchange concerns...
THIS!
Hi @Sweetpea76 ! Love your name BTW.
Thanks for this insight because some of us leave such a wide berth( on their request) as an act of love for our sufferers -and compassion, grace and patience. As a supporter I tend to rationalise ( like @Anon1 )make up "stories " (clinical speak )in...
So you perhaps built deep connections and deep bonds to a degree, classified as a couple and not a " causal passing phase".
Given that you've known each other a year and it was intense- I.M.O it was a bit harsh for your loved one to go M.I.A ( its just what I term it) Perhaps it is "space"...
You have really thought this out and I do hear the rationalising in your head - I do the same . You are 100% relationships are about love and care . They are never black and white ( that perspective is counterproductive)
Profound !
Yes ! Life is short - don't know if you are 20's, 30's,40's or...
Agreeeeeee.
It feels more like being stone-walled.
Possibilities are endless.....lets see:
Silent treatment disguised as a boundary.
Stonewalling disguised as "space".
Ghosting and discard packaged as space AND a boundary( "call it a boundary so it sounds better")
A dump and run painted as not...
:-)
Agree.We possibly were in a relationship with identical twins. Word- for -word so true. OR they are seeing the same Psych.
(It felt like a slap in the face ,MORE like - "I have to look after me and set these boundaries for me , cant meet, cant call- oh and you don't matter anymore and...
Hi @Solveig- I rarely reply posts - but I stumbled onto your post for a reason just now.
Please 1) stay safe 2) know you are NEEDED by another soul in despair 3) Google Nick Vujicic on u tube ( I don't know your religious standing and I respect everyones choices - but please ,google him as a...