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Again, thank you for the encouragement. The first time my wife left, was three years ago. I had made a terrible mistake and had gone with her to our church, and received advice from our pastor to let an older woman in the church "counsel" my wife. This woman, convinced my wife over the term...

True. What about you and your decision? I was writing for both of us. This is not ALL me. This is life. Betrayal is a silver stake in the heart.

One of the reasons this website is so beneficial, for me, is that the comments, thoughts, advice, and counsel, that I give, causes me to consider the very counsel that I give to others, as counsel that I am confronted, to consider, for my very own circumstance. Another way to say this is...

Simply amazing. Unimaginable. My heart and prayers are going up for you now. My heart breaks for you. You can really relate to how Jesus felt the day after he washed Judas' feet. Betrayal. Remember you name "Never Give Up". I believe you wife is on the verge of a 180 change.

Thanks for your input. My counselor is challenging me to focus on what I can change and improve in my mind, heart and soul. I am not without sin, so I have plenty to focus on. Since I love my wife soooo much, the down side is that I allow her to push all my buttons and get so frustrated from...

Now, she is not speaking to me. Not answering her phone. Is this PTSD?

When I showed her what I was reading, she went into a rage. She began yelling and screaming that she hates me. She hates me for reading an ebook about how to recover as a man when your wife betrays and committs adultery. Then she began screaming at me again for being on this site. Then she...

Last night my wife went into a rage. The reason you may ask? She caught me reading on the internet late at night. Do you know what I was reading? I was reading an ebook written by a man for men that are attempting to save their marriages after their wives have an affair with another man and...

The reason that I have not responded earlier is that we found out that our newest grandson, that is one month old, just was taken to the hospital with meningitis. My wife was sobbing uncontrollably and asked me if God was punishing her. I told her no way and explained how much God genuinely...

Never Give Up, hang in there man! I so relate to what you are going through! Just know that you are not the only man that is going through this hell. I have been through this also. I just read on a coping website that I found that psycologists have a name for what I went through PISD, Post...

Never give up and you stay encouraged also.

Update as to my wife. Since recieving the injection of the antibiotic, and taking the oral antibiotic, she is very nausious. We are going back to the Dr. tomorrow to change antibiotics. She continues to be kind to me. She is in a lot of physical pain and is allowing me to take care of her...

Man, do I ever understand and hear you! You have got to remember to never give up though. You are not broken and defeated however! Since you still feel broken and defeated, know that if you were broken and defeated, you would not feel pain. The pain is a communicator to your soul that you...

Hang in there too and never give up! So many times when I respond to you, it is though God is making me look at not only your situation, but my situation also. Never give up.

I took off from my work to take care of my wife. She is in a lot of pain from the pneumonia and the sinus infection. Also, the medicine caused her to be very nausious. I was with her and comforted her, she is sleeping now and has stopped lashing out at me presently. Mercy and kindness...

When I arrived home, she was already asleep in our bed, very early. I just let her sleep. The next morning, she said that she was very ill with a cough that would not stop, a head ache and very tired. I told her that I would take her to the dr. for a check up. She refused. I insisted and...

Yes, God is good. It is very encouraging for me to write to you, thanks. My wife and I went through a very challenging time in the past two days. On Monday morning, my wife awoke in the morning and confronted me with a question. She confronted me about my anger toward her. I answered and...

Never Give Up, stay steady and never give up. We have a ressurrected Lord that has showered us all with grace. His grace toward us is an ever flowing well spring of refreshing water to nourish and satisfy our souls, to the point, that when we allow Him to flow through us with His Spirit, we...

At least we have a future eternal hope.

Amazing. I am praying for you, your wife and your marriage. May God heal and recreate both of you and your marriage. I hate carrots. My wife is still not talking with me and not acknowledging any texts that I send her. Again this silence began an entire week ago now, due to her being...

One clarification point. I was asked by my counselor if I was ever involved with another woman. My answer was that I have committed my life to my wife and made a vow to God. I have one woman and she is my wife. Why in all of creation would I want to have another woman? One is definitely...

I did not mean to ramble. Just needed to vent. Back to PTSD. My wife saw a psycologist that counseled her and performed EMDR with her about 7 years ago. The EMDR did change the way she lived life. After my wife had sessions with the psycologist for a season, and after several EMDR sessions...

I appreciate the responses from BL Hutch and Never Give Up. My wife is continuing to give me the silent treatment and is sleeping in another room for the second night. Actually, her sleeping in another room is easier for me because, in a sexless marriage, her being next to me at night and...

Never Give Up, and for all that have commented, my wife had to discontinue Hormone Replacement Therapy HRT immediately two weeks prior to her complete radical mastectomy two years ago. It has also been challenging for me to understand what symptoms are PTSD and what are manifestations of not...

Thank you everyone for your encouragement and kind words.