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Suzetig, You are so right. You have me all figured out. Thanks for your keen insight.

Eve, ( Loved that movie ) I am open to any suggestions.

I am curious why there is confusion. Maybe “like me” my older brother sexually molested me for years, there was no actual penetration, however without getting into the actual gorey details of what did take place, it WAS still sexual abuse. Did I fight him, no, I was afraid of him. That still...

Thanks Suzetig, I am planning on getting a video camera to monitor things and that will help. I am married and I know he is afraid of my husband. The security gate we have is a decent deterrent but nothing is fool proof for a determined whack job, that is why I want the camera, if he tries...

LOL! Yep, stupid is as stupid does but I know his wife is behind all this “conversion” of turning him into a full blown Jesus freak. We all went to Catholic school, but he was never obsessed until she came into the picture, that’s a whole other story. I tell ya, I could write a book there is so...

Oh, one of his excuses actually was, “ I don’t know how God could have allowed me to do such a thing!” Can you wrap your head around that madness? He claims to have gone to the priest at his church ( I have no idea which one he goes to ) and he went to confession and the priest forgave him on...

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No, I am not thinking you are crossing a line. What I mean is, the first time he approached me on the subject (after the time I confronted him and he told me I “wanted it’ ) he chose Christmas when I lost my voice to have this conversation) he got me off to the side, said what he needed to say...

I appreciate it Daph! Glad you managed to find a therapist that works for you, I can’t even imagine how much $$$ was wasted on this during my life! I never found a “good one.” Telling me to create boundaries when I was living under the same roof with him, telling me I have a toxic family and...

Thanks Daph, I understand that caregiver burnout can intensify things but I would be POed even if she still lived on her own that she would allow the constant and continued assualt and do nothing to stop or correct him. I am stuck being the caregiver because she is not wealthy, and where we...

Hi folks, I am a newbie. The condensed version is my youngest brother sexually & physically assaulted me from about 7. Told Mom and she did nothing. This allowed the abuse to continue. I hate my brother and I will never give him the satisfaction of forgiveness. He is NOT sorry. He is sorry he...