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thanks a lot, it's assuring and comforting :) I tried not to stress him in the past months because I understand the stress he needs to face with when he returns but without us managing to talk about it, I ended up became drained. I guess the only way to create a safe place is an honest...

Thanks Freida, I would love to have a conversation with him how to face this together when it hits. but I still haven't got a chance to talk to him especially I don't even know if he will come back this time after I pushed him away by criticizing him hurting me even though I know not being...

Thanks Weemie for sharing your experiences. I am sorry it didn't work out but understand compatibility is one of the keys for maintaining a relationship. Is it ok if I ask him directly if it's PTSD via text while he is isolating? Would that make him feel more stressed or cared in your experience?

Thanks for sharing. It’s really helpful. I didn’t mention an important part, I lost my patience at a point recently (cause this wasn’t the first time) and told him I felt disrespected and hurt when he kept ignoring me. I feel bad now to have said something which probably stressed him more and...

We are kind of in a new relationship (7months). He has once causally mentioned that he has PTSD. He is currently very stressed and has been disappearing from our relationship for week(s) each time from time to time when he was overwhelmed by demanding workloads. When he reappeared, he would be...