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Sweetpea76 I have tried the calm, but I know for a fact, even without the red flags, that he is having an affair. Two nights in a row, he was caught coming from her house.

So everyone is telling me to set boundaries, but when do you set them? Some are saying to set them anytime, others say to wait until the sufferer is grounded. My sufferer isn't grounded but he's not lost either. I think its reasonable to set some boundaries to make it easier on both of us. I...

I found this thread via google and joined for the support. This sounds exactly like my husband. I have just been sending him little messages of love and I took the advice of sweetpea above and told him that I will stop trying to fix him if he stops trying to rescue me. I will be here for him...

I didnt get into full details but basically he stays away from home more than he is in it, but he's been reassuring that we aren't lost, he is. He's asked for time and I've agreed to give it to him. I am doing my best to be supportive and loving, reassuring him that I'm here and not going...

I've gotten some really good advice from my husband's best friend of 25 years and I am following it as best as I can, but I never imagined that I would ever be at this point. A week ago, my van broke down with our youngest son in it and he never responded to my call for help, then came home 3...