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Maybe we are disappointed when the loved one is " ours " and we're like : ok, if he / she loves me then he/she is not as wonderful as I thought because who would love someone like us ? Or, we might try to protect ourselves because we feel so vulnerable that we need to put some distance and...

Hi ! I've posted in another part of the forum, I had no respond until now but I really need to know how come I can be attracted by someone, admiring and even in love and at the same time, I can feel disgusted by the one I am in love with. I know it sounds weird and it makes me ashamed but I...

Yummy !!!!!! Mine is Cesar sauce ! I could drink it ! Being with someone I love somewhere where there is nobody, a desert place in nature and thinking that if somebody evil is hanging out, we are dead. haha What's your favourite shape of nose ?

La baguette rustique. Favourite salad sauce ?

Whiteness

It does have a fragrance but it is very subtile. Have you ever tried a poppy ice cream ? It tastes as it smells. Delicious ! My favourite thing about the moon is that I helps me meditating and gives me the inspiration I need. What's your favourite quality in a man / woman ?

Poppy ! What's your favourite ice cream flavour ?

I'm starving since I've been at hospital so I've eaten something I thought I wouldn't eat anymore : Chips flavour sweet chilli and red pepper and an iced tea with no sugar. I'm feeling guilty right now. I've been eating healthy for like 4 months. My diet is falling apart, the world will end...

" If someone devalues you due to the traumas you've been through then that someone doesn't worth any better than the one(s) who traumatised you. "

San Francisco What's your favourite fruit ?

Thank you. I hope your mom will be there for you as long as possible. :)

Today, I am grateful that God is inside my heart. I am grateful that is has never been all dark even when I thought it was... I am grateful I have a roof over my head and that I don't have to endure hunger. I am grateful for the ones who genuinely love me and pray for me. I am grateful...

Hi Lightblues ! ☺️ See, that's why we are inconsistent defining ourselves. If in every specific situation it was always the same part who would front to handle it, then we could more easily know the way we function. I don't know if it is your case but I think it is easier to attempt to know...

From the way you talk about your experience, I can actually see that a lot of work has been done. I'm so impressed by the fact that you've accomplish all those stressful changes ! That gives me hope. I have a question for you. Do some of your parts hate your partner ? Let me explain... Even...

I understand what you mean but isn't the purpose of these parts to protect me ? It's disturbing to not be able to know who I will react to different situations. Everybody has a part of unknown about themselves. In my case, it is huge gaps of unknown ! Thank you for the advices. I'll try to...

Renly : One year and a half is way more than what I could hold on ! Are your parts more demonstrative now that you know ? Muttly : I think it's more or less easy to keep things under control when you are fine but what when you are not ?

Thank you Sideways, it's good to know you have parts that can handle situations. I wish I had a protective part... Doesn't seem like. When I feel unsafe most of the time it is the victim one who appears ! And it doesn't make any sense for me. More rarely, I don't recognise myself and yell...

Thank you Lightblues ! I'll keep your advices in mind as I'm going to be operated soon which implies anxiety so I'm not sure it's the right moment to have a proper conversation... But thanks, I'll think about it. Why is it so important to have inter-communication ? Trying to communicate makes...

Thank you arfie. I also do think that honesty are foundations for a healthy relationship. But details can stay stuck in someone's mind and I don't want to be seen or perceived through that. I totally agree ! Very well said ! Thank you Renly for sharing your story with us. How did you do...

Thank you Sideways. I've been single for years and I don't know how long will last the therapeutic work on my parts. So, if I still wait because of my mental health, I'll feel like it's an other punishment. That's though to read but I guess you're right. I can't ask that much...

Thank you for answering. What if they don't want to communicate ? Sometimes, one part pops up, says something and then disappears.

Hi guys, It's around 5.30 am in my country, can't sleep so I'mma ask you some advices. I've been single for years, one of the major reasons was that I knew I wasn't ready, that I needed to kind of fix myself. I've recently find out I have DID and I'm wondering if I should let go once...

Hi guys ! Forgive my broken English, I am French and right now, I'm deploring a lack of my usual skills. Suffering since childhood, still struggling but happy to finally find out why there's no way I can define or describe myself as far as I can remember. Why so fickle... I had many traumas...