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Thanks everyone for your contribution in the thread. I thought I would update with being able to close this chapter and move forward. He still has not contacted me, however, Monday I found out he is married and has been since '05. He is a pathological liar and I feel I dodged a bullet. Thanks...

But then a wave of anger and resentment comes over me in moments of weakness and I think "F him for b*tch buttoning me when I tried to reach out to him last night and F him for making me feel so insignificant." No doubt the man has been through some things and seen some things, but that doesn't...

Aw thanks for your helpful insight Ali! /hug These questions are a bit rudimentary I guess but here they go: From your experience of him doing it before, what was the trigger or did he not discuss it? What were the main signs to you that he was starting to isolate? Just complete avoidance? How...

Well it is day 3 and absolutely no contact from him. Last night around 11pm I sent him a quick text "Miss you! Good night :)" and of course I never heard back. This has not happened in two months of talking. Actually he does take one day a week to regroup where he doesn't talk to anyone, but he...

I thought I would update this thread as I have found this to be someone therapeutic for me. He IS painfully shy..I have discovered this over the course of last few weeks. The situation basically got fairly complicated. He has his routine and schedule set up in a way that allows him to function...

That was exactly my suspicion, tangerinetrees12. This arrangement works for him and he has not intention on moving forward anytime soon. As far as my theory about tuesday... they may be therapy days. His schedule is always jam packed and we talk regularly throughout the day those days. In any...

Thank you, Junebug. I feel we are at a standstill. He expresses he misses me or I am on his mind as soon as he wakes up, yet makes no effort or suggestion to actually spend time together. It feels like he would rather just have someone to have a pretend relationship with than take the next step...

Thank you all very much for your input and insight. I wanted to give it a little bit of time and see where the "course" takes us and not push or overwhelm him with any serious talks. During this past week he has gotten a lot more comfortable in telling me how he feels, how much he misses me...

Although this is my first time posting, I have been reading and utilizing this forum as a resource over the past number of weeks. I'd like to thank the moderators and contributors of this forum for creating and maintaining such a great community. I would like to offer a short version of the...