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It is very hard, but please continue to pray for him, that God will heal him. IT is a roller coaster for everyone involved. If he decides to text every so often, be polite and upbeat and wish him well. It sounds crazy but some days they have a break "when the wonderful person" is there...

Tammylynn, I dont post much here, sometimes Im so overwhelmed I cant say or type anything. Just coming here and knowing that Im not crazy and reading the supportive posts from this group, gives me the support and strength I need as I "over analyze" and wear myself out, with the should I stay...

My head is screaming at me.. but the stupid heart just cant/wont let go. I have always been in control of my life and this man, i just fell so hard for him,,and I understood he was grieving, but this past year has been a roller coaster. Perhaps I am still in a state of shock/disbelief... I...

I dont post often, but tonight I just need to get it out. His father died a year ago, when he went home we had been dating for 6 months, it was most perfect. The day after his father passed, my dad was rushed to hospital, so I had my obligations also, we talked daily, he even called when they...

Francis, kudos for making it to the gym once a week, that is awesome. I had a personal trainer had been with her for about 9 mos, then when the PTSD kicked in, I was so consumed with trying to understand what he was doing, I took some time off, well now it has been over 6 mos since I...

I just miss him and miss us,

I guess I am just having a weekend where I need to vent, feeling sorry for myself, whatever u want to call it. Right now I feel like he just wants to end it, but doesn't what to be direct. It is just driving me crazy. I have been on two long walks this weekend, gotten away from the house, but...

Hi Francis, I so understand how you feel, most times "i am in control" I know it is the PTSD that makes him numb. distant, cold, but since Oct, I have been dealing with this, and after a bit the hurt and being scared, wears on me. I understand it all, then 2 mins i dont and i take it...

I have read through the posts, to find comfort and understanding, I have cried till I dont think I have one tear left, screamed in my pillow... everything that everyone else has gone through. I get emails that I am not emaling enough, so I try the other approach, and they state you are killing...

I have been reading threads on this forum for about a month, i am in a long distant relationship, his father died last Oct, prior to that things were good, we talked to each all the time, the day his father died, my father fell ill, and the next day mom and i were visiting in the hosp and...