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Aww it's fine friend! I welcome your comments, I'm very alone in this so it's nice to have support. And if it were the beginning of the affair, lol, I would have definitely taken your advice. I've learned a lot about myself in two years, still learning and there are times I wish I would have...

Thanks Akena for the response. He is no longer having an affair, this was over a year and a half ago and I never thought his PTSD was to blame for the affair. I just came to this site two years ago for support and stopped in for an update. I appreciate your post though. I'm taking care of me and...

Thanks guys for the replies. He is the best I can hope for him to be, of course. I know he loves me, he is just having a hard time finding long term loving feelings for me. He will be loving for a few days, and then cold. He was this way last night, but then when he woke up told me he...

I forgot I had joined this support group so long ago. I will make a new post, but wanted to thank everyone for the support they gave me during a very difficult time in my marriage and life. To make a long story short, I didn't have the strength to walk away from my marriage, I just couldn't...

Thanks everyone for all of the helpful words and support. Trust me, I always felt like an affair was a deal breaker for me too, and in the end it may be, I'm still sorting through how I feel. For now, I do go to a counselor to talk things out and he is seeing two Army doctors as well to talk...

A month ago my PTSD/TBI husband left our house and has been having an affair. He still comes home to visit me after work and the entire time his mistress is at work. He calls me daily, we meet for lunch daily-- I work on post at a non profit for combat veterans so its easy to meet. He says he...