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again, all i was asking was if my feelings of 'heaving "it" to the wayside' were uncommon. i love my wife and child, but i feel like it is always going to be one-sided. and not to sound "like a 5 year old" but i am a person as well. who cares more about youself than you?? in a perfect...

auburngirl, that was most helpful, and i apologize to all as i reread my initial post and it did sound like i was just whining a little bit. where could i find support for myself?? if she is taking and taking(support) but cannot give as much as (i think) she should, then who do i look to...

when my spouse 'gets quiet' i cannot help but take it personal as well. and being a male,and this will probably sound really bad, but i always assume she has done something wrong(although i do not voice it) or is in physical pain. i havent really embraced the softer emotions... i cant find a...

i was not trying to tell anyone how aweful my wife was, only describe the situation and get some feedback on whether or not this was normal doubts and concerns on the part of the carer. but what concerns me the most, is that if there is no cure, and anything can set it off(because of her...

i apologize for coming across as unsympathetic to those who suffer from mental illness; i can only support someone for so long before i begin to feel as though they do not want to get better. it is like buying a pet bird at the store because it has a broken wing, and you feel bad for it. when...

Hello All, My wife and I have been married for 2 1/2 years. we have a 1 year old child. i will not describe the conditions of our marriage , other than the fact that i will be separating from the service(honorably) and my wife was sent home 6 months early(to pad the nest, so to speak) As...