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Hey guys just wanted to say a big thanks for your advice here and for helping me see an insight to the other side of the fence. I finally grew a set today and told my partner she is the one I admire the most in the world and she agreed that even she looks back and wonders how she was so strong...

Discarded he let you leave because he thinks that's what you want he only wants you to be happy and he is finding it hard to see that anyone could be happy with him because he sees himself as so damaged.

Thanks discarded. You should look into VVCS too. I know they have been terrible in the past but they seem to have ironed it out now. They do a lot of supporter based things too.

It's cool no problems. I am exposing more raw nerves every day at the moment. I tell her as much as I can that I love her, I even include it in 99 per cent of my text messages, sometimes a couple of times in one message. I get told I don't have to tell her and that sometimes I am smothering her...

Oh and sorry for the long responses, I don't know how to be brief.

Question for you all. Hopefully I have helped in some small way at least and hopefully you guys can help me. I can't find the words when I am with my partner to tell her how lucky I feel that she is in my life, I need her, I love her, she is my hero because she never asked for any of this, she...

Wow so many questions and I am by no means an expert. I will however answer honestly from my point of view and hopefully it helps. 7 weeks can be an eternity. I spent 12 months attacking my partner and 6 weeks before the end of the course I wizened up and went up to her to tell her that she...

That's all you can do faith. All we do is take it 1 step at a time and sometimes it's a second by second thing depends on whether we are having a good day or a bad day. I personally have turned to a point where I look at the past as reminder of how bad things actually can get and use it as a...

Wow guys I only posted 2 things last night and I've had massive response from this thread. Firstly thank you guys for taking the time to read my post it's nice to be listened to. We are very ashamed of the things we have done. I tell everyone I got out of the army because I had done everything...

This post bought me to tears. I didn't realize there were people out there that could comprehend the sacrifices we have made to do the things that we have. It is amazing that you are so proud of your partner you can write it for the whole world to see that he is your hero. You've done an amazing...

I am a sufferer who has just completed a 18 week program through Hollywood (Perth's VA Hospital). It is a combined 2 week inpatient and 16 weeks of 2 days per week. the first 2 weeks as an inpatient are daily and you bond as a team to tackle the demons together. We were mostly ex serviceman but...