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@Lucycat and @TimeToHeal thank you for your responses, it helped me understand him a little better and why he does some of the things he does. It can be difficult to love someone with PTSD but as I told him yesterday, I've never given up on anything I believe in even if it's hard and I adore...

So here's my question, do you ever feel like you are having to prove your love and dedication to your partner with PTSD? For example, they question your feelings for them or ask you to do something to prove you love them, nothing bad but things like going to where they are in the middle of the...

@Gingerly my running is my saving grace and keeps me sane. I ha pd an injury that side lined me the last 2 weeks and I thought I was going to lose it. Finally got out yesterday for an easy 4.5 miler and felt 100x's better. Running a,so helps me deal with his issues and helps me clear my head...

@Gingerly .....I know you're right and I'm trying but god is it hard. I'm trying to give him his space and just back off and hope for the best and I guess start preparing for the worst. I'm throwing myself into work and training for my next race to get my mind off of it. I'm so glad I found this...

I'm so glad to see I'm not the only one dealing with this out there. We had a great few weeks but things have just exploded again. He has a ton of stress in his life and it's triggered him so now he's telling me he's done again and this time he means it. I'm just trying not to freak out but it's...

Gingerly, my BF also said the same thing when we met.....when he's done, he's done yet his actions prove otherwise. I think it's a defense mechanism or something?? I'm not sure but it's hard.

Thanks Bell, you're right I've let him and us be the sole focus partially because there's been a lot of upheaval and change in my life so it's made me very insecure and overthinking everything. I'm going to just start focusing on getting me straightened and hoping for the best with him. Thanks...

Thanks Moex, he's pretty much told me he's done with us and hasn't talked to me in 3 days. I'm freaking out and trying to give him his space. It is killing me. And you are so right, he is so closed off that my insecurities are in overdrive. I'm just going to keep doing counseling and hoping for...

I am new to this and need help as most of us do. I met my boyfriend 16 months ago and it was immediate attraction and love. We moved in together and have lived together for a year. About a month after we met, we had our first argument and he shut down and said he was done with us. We worked...