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It's been a while. I spent 3 months, from December 5th to February 28th out in California with my girl. Everything went great. She was seeing a councillor and we were really happy. Since I've come home it's worse than ever. We have fought multiple times a week and I get no peace at all. I've...

She does have major abandonment issues. That is usually the core of the matter, she always feels that any time not spent with her is me running away or trying to get away, like I'll never come back. Reassurance never seems to work so it's the same cycle.

I took the advice offered and sat her down to have a very important discussion. We set terms and some boundaries, the biggest of which is that she needs professional help. It took some serious convincing but she agreed and now sees a therapist every week, she even started up making bespoke items...

Thank you for the response, Stickler. I try to accommodate her needs as best I can, living with PTSD must be tough and I have been through some of the same things she has, but I can handle it better. I accepted what happened to me but she's still angry at the world. I know I'm not responsible...

Hello, New user here and looking for advice (constructive criticism appreciated too), I'll start with some basic history. I've been in a long distance relationship with my significant other for close to 4 years and she has complex PTSD (she doesn't get detached or have episodes of...