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Yes because one he can't help but the other he can.

I just feel lost as to what outcome has the least amount of harm. Leaving the relationship will obviously hurt him and make him worse and he's told me in the past he doesn't know if he could go through another heartbreak which really worries me but at the same time I'm feeling drained and...

You're right.

Im beginning to have very mixed feelings about my relationship. It seems like it's becoming no longer enjoyable or happy. My boyfriend no longer seems interested in me. I'm trying to make an effort into opening up to him so he feels he can with me and he tells me he wants me to talk to him when...

I'll try and talk to him today about maybe a safe word for whenever he feels triggered? We're gonna get a a book on positive communication habits and how to better communicate to each other when something is wrong

We had gone over a week without a single fight and then this morning happened. Last night didn't go the greatest but we both tried to put it behind us this morning. But we ended up getting in a huge fight. Over stupid shit as usual. I just feel like when I do something wrong he has no problem...

I'm here if you need to talk. Everyone has those off days. But tomorrow could be one the best so try to keep your chin up

Very true.

I don't know if it's exactly a "what if he didn't have PTSD" moment that I had. It was more of just being sad cause of how rare I get moments like that. But I feel guilty for even thinking that. I still have an amazing boyfriend it's just hard sometimes cause I have anxiety and sometimes I need...

This brought me to tears. It's so f*cking hard sometimes but when you know the person is worth it, that's all that matters. I wish you and your wife the absolute best. Thank you for your comment. It made my day. It's been one of those days and I really needed this thank you

Today while working I saw a lady talking to a guy and you could tell it was someone that was upsetting to the women cause she started crying and he just held her for a straight 30 minutes. It almost brought me to tears. It's not very often that my boyfriend and I get those truly deep moments...

In the beginning of our relationship he was perfectly fine. You wouldn't of known something so bad had happened to him and he displayed no signs of PTSD. But as time went on yeah he started changing and for some time I did feel responsible but I've learned to do my own thing and not worry so...

It does! Thank you

Just from posting one thing on here and getting such helpful and genuine responses back, my boyfriend and I are already doing way better. We went out for a date yesterday and I tried to listen more. We had planned to go for a hike but I could tell he wasn't feeling up to it and instead we took...

Thank you Yes this site has already helped tremendously

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I'm new here too and I understand feeling sort of lost and confused as to him wanting space when you have positive intentions. But by giving him space he'll be able to bring down his anxiety levels and will appreciate you aiding him in his recovery even when it means not physically being there.

Hi my name is Brooke. I'm the youngest child with two older brothers including one in law enforcement. I've been together with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and he's my best friend. I joined this site to better understand PTSD due to not only my brother having minor PTSD but mainly...

That cup representation definitely helped put things into perspective more. As for his amount that he's working, his mom works just as many hours if not more but his father left behind no money and instead just loads of debt. So they're trying to pay off everything and work their way up but it's...

I was beginning to feel like I was losing myself and I was becoming so angry and would lose it. And after it happened for the second time I realized now I was changing cause everyone knows me as the level headed one in my group of friends and even got the nickname "mom". And I was never an angry...

We've been in England for the past three weeks cause all of his extended family lives there and because we were there for such a lengthy amount of time his counselor closed off his case. And his job hasn't given him a day off in three weeks because of how long the vacation was so he hasn't had a...

In desperate need of help, advice, anything. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and half now. But for months now all we seem to do is argue and fight. It seems like we can't go a day together without arguing about something stupid half the time. He has PTSD after finding...