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Ok I accept what you are saying. It is not okay for her to do this if I am not ok with it. I suppose the easiest thing for me to do is to accept that it is part of her condition, rather than face up to an ugly truth. As for the communication with her, as she is liable just to pull the shutters...

That makes a heck of a lot of sense, Friday. Thank you so much for this. It's not just me who feels that I shouldn't have to put up with behaviour that wouldn't be acceptable in other relationships. I will try talking to her again and if I'm still not satisfied with her point of view (if we...

Thanks for this. The trouble is whenever I do try and talk about it she sees it as an attack on her. Like I said I get accused of trying to control her, even just by talking and trying to find out why she's doing it. It's just sore sometimes me supporting her all the time, with the old adage of...

I just want to ask a question to see if my sufferer is displaying traits associated with her c-ptsd, or if I am justified in how I feel. I know I'd be totally within my rights to pull her up about it if she wasn't a sufferer, I think. I am male and my co-habiting girlfriend is constantly...

Hi everyone. I'm so glad I found this forum to help both sides of the disorder. How many of us have gone online looking for help for ourselves as supporters and only found lists of dos and don'ts, and commands on how we should behave? I feel that there is certainly a lack of support for us...